Did you know that not only women have a G-spot? You have one too! The male G-spot is the prostate, also called the P-spot. Although the pleasure brought by prostate stimulation is still taboo for most, there are quite a few products available for stimulating this sensitive spot, either alone or with a partner. Whether during masturbation or sexual activity, stimulating the prostate will enhance your pleasure. You can stimulate the prostate with an anal dildo, anal vibrator, or a prostate stimulator.
The prostate is a male sexual gland the size of a chestnut, which together with the seminal vesicles produces most of the seminal fluid. It is located below the bladder, between the pubic bone in front and the rectum behind. It is located about 5 cm deep. It is quite difficult to reach this spot with a hand or fingers, so we recommend using a prostate stimulator or another anal sex toy.
As the name suggests, a prostate stimulator is an erotic device, specifically designed to stimulate the male P-spot. Its shape is similar to a dildo or anal plug, but it usually has a slightly curved tip to hit the right spot. Most stimulators are designed to also stimulate the perineum simultaneously.
A better orgasm is just one of the positive effects of prostate massage. Stimulating this area also helps reduce the risk of developing prostate cancer. Regular massage increases blood flow and brings fresh oxygen to the prostate, thus preventing bacterial buildup, which not only leads to infections but also increases the risk of cancer cells developing. Regular massage also means a lower chance of impotence.
Different types of prostate stimulators are available. We recommend a smaller silicone toy for beginners. Silicone is very pleasant to the touch, soft and smooth, and allows for gentle and comfortable insertion. It is non-porous, so bacteria do not linger on it. Small prostate stimulators reach about 8-10 cm in size. Once you are accustomed to the sensation, we recommend moving to a thicker tip, a longer shaft, you can also check out vibrating stimulators. Vibrating stimulators have various types of vibration functions and speeds, and are also available with a remote control, which makes it easier to operate. Don't forget the anal lubricant!
For a good prostate massage, lie on your back and prepare the lubricant. Lift both knees upward. Start by massaging the area around the anal opening and the perineum (the area between the anus and the testicles). This will relax the muscles and facilitate penetration.
Take the toy and apply a suitable amount of anal lubricant. Anal lubricant usually has a relaxing effect on the anus, so insertion will be completely painless. Gently press the stimulator against the buttocks and slowly push it inside. After about 5 cm, you are at the right spot. There lies the prostate, which you will undoubtedly feel. Begin to gently stimulate the spot.
Did you start feeling a tickling sensation on the side? No worries, this is a completely normal feeling. Over time, you will get used to it, and the sensation will disappear. If you find internal massage uncomfortable and cannot relax into it, try using the stimulator on the outside. With circular motions, gently massage the area between the anus and the testicles.
Clean the prostate stimulator with warm water and mild soap. Silicone ones can even be cleaned in the dishwasher (without dishwasher tablets), but you can also use a toy cleaner. After cleaning, wipe it with a clean and dry cloth and let it dry well.