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What is role play?

Role play, or as it is more commonly known here, bedroom role playing, involves playing with a strong erotic element. In it, both (or at least one of the partners) take on the characteristic, and perhaps also visual properties of another persona.

Role play almost always involves an exchange of power and control, which is why it is often associated with the BDSM world, but this is not necessarily the case for everyone. It can also be very sensual and romantic.

Why engage in role play?

Role play is an excellent way to spice up your sex life and break the routine in bed. It allows you both to relax and act out your hidden fantasies.

Taking on other personas, using masks and costumes often give us a sense of security, as we can hide behind them, while also expressing our hidden desires.

Complicated, but extremely interesting paradox, isn't it?

How to start

Everything starts in the bedroom with a sincere and open conversation between partners. Share if you are interested in role play and what roles excite you. If there is also an exchange of control and other BDSM accessories, such as handcuffs, whips and gags, make sure to also agree on a safety word or safety gesture.

Initially, overcome any nervousness that may cause you stress. Role play can often feel like reciting a poem in elementary school or participating in a high school play. Many people avoid role play because they believe they are not good at acting. This is completely unnecessary, as you are not performing for critics, but for each other.

Also, it's not strange to become fully immersed in the role - that is the very purpose of role playing. So do not be ashamed and do not try to inadvertently prevent the experience by holding back or deliberately "breaking" the mood with laughter or unnecessary comments. This can deter you or your partner from further trying out such activities.

With an interest in role play, it is therefore necessary to be patient and practice. This way, the matter becomes familiar, and in your new persona, you can eventually relax enough and start to truly enjoy.

In this, costumes and masks can be of great help, as they add a visual element to your role, making it even more realistic. Similarly helpful are also butt plugs with tails, bands with cat ears and hoods in the shape of a dog’s head.

Choosing a persona

What roles are most popular and desirable to play - those in which there is a dynamic of power exchange.

So for example, take on the role of a doctor and a nurse, or a nurse and a patient, landlord_ess and tenant, professor and student, or guest and maid or cleaner.

If control and power exchange is not your thing, you can pretend to be roommates, a photographer and a model, or one of you retains your own persona while the other partner transforms into your favorite celebrity.

If you still do not know which role to take, look at our offer of seductive costumes, which will surely excite you and help you find a mysterious and seductive persona.