One of the most common fetishes (besides foot fetishes) are fetishes for various types of clothing. A fetish for a specific type of clothing can be based on the type of garment itself, or it can depend on the material from which the garment is made.
The most fetishized pieces of clothing include thigh-high stockings, gloves, corsets, garments made of latex or leather, nylon, PVC... and of course costumes and uniforms.
These can look authentic and realistic, but more often they are intentionally made more seductive.
This is achieved by adding fishnet stockings, high heels, gloves, corsets... Also, the cuts of erotic uniforms are designed to be extremely revealing: with deep necklines, mini skirts, open crotches... Uniforms intended for fetish play can also be made from fetishized materials such as latex and leather.
Uniforms are often closely intertwined with BDSM games. Not always involving extreme bondage activities, nor necessarily using whips, clamps, blindfolds...
However, the use of a uniform is often a part of role-playing, where one person is submissive, and the other is dominant, which already categorizes as BDSM ("dom" = the dominant person who takes control; "sub" = the submissive person who surrenders control) activities.
Simply explained:
If your partner, for example, dresses up as a policewoman and "arrests" you, she becomes the dominant person; if she dresses as a waitress and fulfills all the desires of a guest, she takes on a submissive role.
Role-playing can also be undertaken without a uniform, or you may try to create one with pieces of clothing you already have at home.
However, an appropriate uniform (whether more realistic or seductive) significantly contributes to the immersion into the role and creation of a passionate atmosphere. The role play also becomes more realistic, which increases the satisfaction of those involved and the fulfillment of fantasies or fetishes.
In role-playing, it is especially important to relax and not be afraid or ashamed to assume another identity and truly immerse yourself in your role.
Some ideas for sexy role-playing (first and second part) can be found on our blog, where we regularly write about topics related to healthy, safe, and of course exciting sexuality.
The difference between a uniform fetish and the desire to fulfill a hidden fantasy is significant.
A fetish for uniforms (or anything else one might fetishize) means that the uniform must be necessarily present for the individual with the fetish to experience climax.
A fantasy or desire to use a uniform in role play is just one of the activities when it comes to sexual life. It involves experimentation, adventure, but it is not necessary for sexual satisfaction.
Both fetishes and sexual fantasies are completely normal and healthy, so there is no need to be ashamed of them. It is only necessary to establish good communication and a healthy relationship with the partner or person with whom we explore the world of fetishes and fantasies.