When it comes to sexuality, it doesn't all have to revolve around intercourse. Sexuality is much more than just intercourse. There are many ways to satisfy your partner. One of the ways is definitely erotic massage, which provides an opportunity for partners to connect through pleasant touches and tenderness.
Erotic massages can be a very good foreplay. Did you know that foreplay is especially important for women? Women need more time to get “warmed up” for intercourse and foreplay plays a crucial role in this. If you dedicate enough time to foreplay, there is also more chance that she will later reach orgasm. Surprise her with a romantic and at the same time erotic massage, which will prepare her well for penetration and other stimulation.
Did you know that men enjoy massages too? Create a romantic atmosphere and pamper him with gentle touches. Although it might seem that men don't like it, it's worth trying. It may happen that the erotic massage will take your intimacy to a completely different level.
If you are excited about BDSM, you can also use feathers during the massage, which will spice up the massage.
It is important to prepare for performing a massage, as preparation makes it easier to ensure that the person receiving it will enjoy the experience. We know not everyone is born a masseuse, so it is advisable to check (online or in other sources) which techniques exist, or to attend a massage course. Prepare all the necessary tools for the massage, create a romantic atmosphere, and indulge in pleasures. If you want to know more about how to start, read the post on our blog Sensual massage for couples: How to start?
Erotic massage has many benefits, making it worth trying. It has a relaxing effect, is also useful for relieving stress (after a hard work day or week). It is also excellent if there is less desire for sex, as it increases sexual desire. With massage, we can achieve greater arousal, which can improve sex. One of the very important benefits is strengthening mutual connection, as touch strengthens your bond and your relationship. It also improves your general health, as it helps with blood circulation and improves the functioning of the lymphatic system.
Massages are usually performed with hands, and skin-to-skin contact causes friction, which does not make these touches too pleasant. If you apply massage oil to your hands or to your partner's skin, the slipperiness of the oil will reduce friction and make the massage much more pleasant, and the hands will then slide better over the body. For the person being massaged, the feeling of oil on the body can be very pleasant, and if you slightly warm the oil between your hands beforehand, it can even be magnificent, as the massage will be very pleasant from start to finish, without the initial cold feeling.
If you have never used massage oil before and are not sure if it will suit you, don't worry. Oil can always be used for skin care, as it moisturizes and rejuvenates the skin.
There are many types of massage oils available that can spice up sex. One of the main differences between products is the type of formula. Traditional oils are thick and can leave the skin very slippery. Some people don't like such a greasy feeling, so they prefer to choose massage lotion or gel.
Massage oils also differ in scents. In our range, you can find oils with the scent of citrus, aloe vera, vanilla, strawberry, coconut, almonds, white chocolate, etc. Some oils are edible and thus suitable for consumption (you can also taste and kiss the oil).
Because massage oil is slippery and provides good lubrication, some decide to use massage oil instead of lubricant. In this case, it is necessary to know that oil can negatively affect the vaginal flora, so it is better to use lubricant. However, when using oils, care must also be taken when using latex condoms, as oil destroys latex, which can cause the condom to burst or tear. This reduces the reliability of the condom in preventing sexually transmitted diseases and pregnancy.
If you still want a product for both massage and lubrication, you can find products in our store that are created for that purpose. However, these are not oils, but massage gels, which are intended for massage and additional lubrication. Here we recommend that you always read the instructions for use, if you wish to use a condom along with these products.