Up for a threesome?

A threesome is the desire of almost every man and some women too. Many of you have enjoyed one, and even more of you are probably still only dreaming about it. It can be an absolutely fantastic experience, but it can also ruin a relationship. To make sure the experience is truly excellent, it is good to keep a few things in mind. So, what are the rules for threesome sex?

Most men dream of sex with two women, but in fact a “threesome” opens up many possibilities and any number of people enjoying pleasure together. In this article, we will focus mainly on sex between one man and two women, and one woman and two men.
We have prepared 7 rules for you that ensure excellent triple pleasure.

If you are single, there are actually no rules for you. All you have to do is find two more people who would like to experience this with you. If you are in a relationship, however, things get a little more complicated, especially if your partner is not as enthusiastic about it as you are.

1. FANTASIZE

The main reason threesome sex causes a split in a relationship is that the couple did not talk about it openly at the very beginning. If one partner does not feel good about it and “feels” forced, or agrees only to please the other, it will not end well. Make sure that you both truly want sex with another person, and only then can you start fantasizing. Together!

The easiest way to do this is during sex, by sharing with each other what you would like the third person to do if they were in bed with you at that moment.

Then talk to your partner about what you felt at the thought of a third person, what feelings it awakened in you, and whether the sex was hotter and more exciting than usual. Some couples find that fantasizing alone spices up their sex life and they do not take the next step at all.

2. SET BOUNDARIES

Limits and boundaries are important, and they are also an easy way to keep things from getting complicated. For example, if you want your partner to climax with you and not with the other person, if you do not want certain positions … all of this must be clarified.

Never break the rules you have set! Of course, you can change them next time if you decide to repeat the experience, but discuss this with clear heads.

3. DO NOT CHOOSE A FRIEND

Once you know what you want and what you do not, it is time to choose the third person. Do not choose someone you know, as in most cases this brings problems. If you are looking for a man, you will probably find one more easily than a woman. Various clubs are an excellent place to meet people, but there are not many of them, so your best chance of finding a partner is online.

4. MAKE SURE EVERYONE KNOWS THE RULES

Once you have found the third partner, it is time for … a conversation. It is important that all three of you know what you want and what you expect. Tell the third person what rules you have set, what their rules are, what they want to do, and what they absolutely do not want.

5. USE PROTECTION

We probably do not need to emphasize that during sex you should ALWAYS use protection.

6. DO NOT BE SELFISH

After five steps, you are finally ready for action! Do not be selfish; all three of you must be involved in what is happening at every single moment. Men, you need to make sure the pleasure lasts as long as possible, so try to hold back your orgasm. It is good to pay more attention to your partner so they do not get the feeling that you are more excited about the third person, but the third person must still always be included!

7. SAY GOODBYE AFTER SEX

Do not let the third person sleep over at your place after sex. This is not a good idea, especially if this is new to you, because you and your partner need time to talk after the experience and reconnect.

Honesty is also important! Tell your partner honestly whether you liked the experience, what you enjoyed and what you did not, and whether you would repeat it. It is completely normal for one or both of you to feel jealousy and insecurity.

If you follow the rules above, threesome sex will be a wonderful experience for all three of you, and one you will undoubtedly want to repeat.