23. 03. 2022
Tips for Better SexProstate massage - what it is and how to start
Prostate orgasms are longer and more intense than typical ejaculatory orgasms. Men who experience them often feel them throughout the body. A regular orgasm can be a quick rush; a prostate orgasm, by contrast, just keeps rolling.
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A study conducted in the U.S. found that prostate massage is most popular among men over forty, with the most interest among those aged 55 to 65.
We see something similar here. Most inquiries about prostate massagers come from men in their mature years.
Those are also the years when men may experience erectile difficulties - and with prostate massage, they can keep enjoying orgasms easily, which are known to be much more intense than usual!
Who are prostate stimulators for?
Prostate massagers are generally intended for anyone with a prostate, but you can also use them if you don’t have one - for example for anal or perineal stimulation.
Many people believe prostate massagers are only for very kinky or gay men, but that’s simply not true. Anyone can use one - the main reason to buy this toy is, first and foremost, the desire for better sex and more pleasure.
What does a prostate orgasm feel like?
As mentioned, prostate orgasms are longer and more intense than regular ejaculatory orgasms. Men who’ve had them say they often feel them throughout the whole body. A regular orgasm is like a quick rush of pleasure; a prostate orgasm, by comparison, just keeps going.
With a prostate orgasm, ejaculation isn’t necessary. If the penis isn’t stimulated at the same time, it’s more likely that only prostatic fluid will leak, which is thinner than semen. There’s less of it and it comes out more slowly. Because it looks milky, this is also called prostate milking.
It can also happen that there’s no ejaculate at all.
Where is the prostate located?
The prostate is a walnut-sized gland that the urethra passes through, located between the bladder and the base of the penis. You can feel it by inserting a finger into the anus and turning it upward toward the penis. It’s easiest to feel when aroused because it enlarges.
Benefits of prostate massage
Because the prostate enlarges with age, it can sometimes swell to the point of obstructing urine flow, as the urethra that runs through it narrows. Regular prostate massage can help men who have urination issues due to an enlarged prostate.
Massage reduces the buildup of prostatic fluid and supports better function.
Some research also suggests that with regular massage we may reduce the risk of prostate cancer.
And finally, prostate massage improves sexual pleasure and erections.
How to get started with prostate massage?
The most important thing is to go slowly and use plenty of lubricant. If you’re doing it solo, it’s easiest with a toy. I’ll introduce some of the best at the end of this post.
If cleanliness worries you, before you begin you can use an anal douche.
When it’s time for action, start slowly and with something small. The easiest is to begin with one finger, then two, and maybe even three. After that, bring in toys and plenty of anal lube!
If this is totally new for you, you might initially feel like you need to have a bowel movement. Don’t let that scare you - it’s completely normal and will pass. Some people also feel the urge to pee due to pressure on the prostate and, indirectly, the bladder. The easiest way around this is to go before you start massaging.
And one more thing - for the first time, don’t set your expectations too high. It’s unlikely you’ll climax right away, because you’ll be experiencing brand-new sensations and may find it harder to fully relax. Don’t stress - focus on what feels good. Maybe it’ll happen the second or third time, or it may take a few more tries. That’s perfectly normal. There’s a reason the prostate is called the male G-spot!
Most popular prostate massagers
Hueman - Black Hole
One of the bestsellers is the Hueman Black Hole anal vibrator with ring, because in addition to a prostate stimulator it also has a penis ring. For easier control you can switch settings with the included remote control and simply surrender to pleasure.
Learn more about this stimulator and the Hueman line in this video!
Easy Toys Anal Collection - anal vibrator
If you’d rather start with something more budget-friendly to find out whether prostate massage suits you, the easytoys silicone anal vibrator is perfect for you. It’s made of quality silicone and has a slightly curved tip to stimulate the prostate more easily.
Easy Toys Men Only - Stimulator prostate Bent
A prostate massager doesn’t have to vibrate. You can also start with a non-vibrating one that you hold and rock to stimulate the prostate. The Stimulator prostate Bent is ideal for that.
Rocks Off - O-Boy prostate vibrator
If you’re a fan of intense stimulation, choose the O-Boy prostate vibrator. Thanks to its curve, it hits exactly where it should, while also intensely stimulating the perineum.
LELO Hugo vibrator
For those who like something more luxurious, the LELO Hugo is ideal. LELO makes truly high-quality toys, and this anal vibrator is no exception. You simply can’t go wrong with it!
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