Fisting – how to get started?

Fisting is a technique of penetrating the anus or vagina with the whole hand. If the idea turns you on, there is no reason to be afraid. All you need to do is learn what you need for fisting and how to prepare for it. We have put together a few tips.

What do I need for fisting?

For fisting, you need a glove, lubricant, toy, and towel. Gloves are almost essential for fisting, as they prevent nails from injuring the inside. They also block contact with bodily fluids and protect against microbes. At the same time, they allow easier movement because they do not absorb lubricant, while hands do.

Choose gloves that fit tightly, without wrinkles, so penetration is smooth. The next thing is lubricant. Choose a safe lubricant. This means it contains no harmful substances. It can be water-based or silicone-based. We recommend that the lubricant does not have a numbing effect.

The receiver of fisting must be aware of every sensation and any possible pain. And one more thing - you will really need a lot of lubricant. More than you imagine. Before fisting itself, you can use an erotic toy, especially an inflatable one. This gradually gets the opening used to stretching. A towel will prevent any stains on the bedding.

Step one: prepare the space

Before fisting, make sure you have all accessories (glove, lubricant, erotic toys, towel) within reach. Also prepare a glass of water or enough other fluid. Turn off your phone.

Step two: prepare the body

Trim your nails, wash your hands. Remove jewelry. The receiver should empty their bladder. Create a pleasant atmosphere. Both participants should feel comfortable and good. Communicate during fisting. Start with stimulation without penetration, meaning gently tease the external area - the vagina or anus. You can also tease other parts of the body.

Do not compare what you see in porn movies with what happens in the bedroom! When there is agreement and relaxation, fisting is not about causing pain.

Step three: penetration

Stimulation before fisting must be maximal, which means you should focus on the whole body and it can last half an hour or an hour. When you are both ready, take lubricant and apply it generously on and into the vagina or anus. Start with one or two fingers inserted into the opening. Slowly spread the fingers into a V shape. At the same time, you can also tease other parts of the body. Clitoral stimulation often helps women.

For easier anal fisting, you can use one of the anal toys, especially inflatable ones. Once the body gets used to two fingers, start adding the others. For easier insertion, curl your fingers (bring the index finger and little finger as close together as possible). When you use all four fingers (without the thumb), it is time for the next stage. To make it easier, tuck the thumb toward the index finger and little finger. The hand will take the shape of a duck or duck's beak. Then slowly try to penetrate deeper. Getting past the knuckles will be the hardest, because the hand is wider there. If it will not go, stop.

Step four: fist

Once you manage to penetrate past the knuckles, the hand almost slides deeper on its own. At this point, both of you should take some time to get used to the sensation. Then start experimenting. You can try rotating the hand to test different positions, while also stimulating other parts of the body. You can also keep the hand completely still, because the sensation itself can be orgasmic. Move slowly and carefully.

Step five: removal

When you are finished, pull the fist out very, very slowly. Use the same structure (duck's beak) as during insertion.

For complete pleasure before fisting, prepare a glove, lubricant, and an erotic toy.

Do not forget proper hygiene

Because fisting is an intense form of play, it is important to pay attention to hygiene after the action is over too, not only before and during. The receiver of fisting should go to the toilet to help flush out any bacteria from the urethra. Drink some water, eat something, and take some time for yourselves.

Fisting is not for everyone

One more thing - fisting is not suitable for everyone. Both partners really need to be well prepared for it. At the same time, two conditions must be met for successful fisting. First, you need to practice long enough for the anus muscles to prepare properly and allow the fist to enter. Second, the body must have enough free space behind the anus. It can happen that the hand successfully penetrates the opening, but there is not enough room for it further inside. If done correctly, penetration with a fist is one of the most intimate things.

The most common questions about fisting

Because fisting is fairly unfamiliar to our customers, we often encounter questions about it. Let us help you dispel the myths and answer them.

What is the point of fisting?

For the person receiving it, fisting provides a feeling of fullness. At the same time, the receiver can feel complete submission. The giver is turned on by the idea that they can insert an entire hand into their partner.

Although there is a belief that fisting is a rough and painful way of satisfaction, those who practice it report the exact opposite. In principle, the process is painless for both sides, brings a special pleasure, and brings partners closer together.

Do the vagina and anus stretch out when I practice fisting?

No, the vagina or anus do not stay stretched out after fisting. There may be a feeling of being stretched for a few days, but then it contracts back.

What do I need for fisting?

For fisting, you need a glove, lubricant, toy, and towel. We emphasize once again that you need a sufficient amount of lubricant; it can be water-based or silicone-based.

Can everyone take a whole fist inside?

No, not everyone can take a full fist. The opening may simply be too narrow, and its length is also important. It can happen that the hand successfully penetrates the opening, but there is not enough room for it further inside.

Fisting hurts

Do not compare what you see in porn movies with what happens in the bedroom! When there is agreement and relaxation, fisting is not about causing pain. Contrary to belief, the entire process takes place very slowly and not roughly. Another prejudice is that this practice mainly appeals to perverts. No, among those who practice fisting, there are all kinds of couples.